Tahiry Disses Kaylin

Last week, we saw Love & Hip Hop cast members Joe Budden, Tahiry and Kaylin come face to face with each other for the second time during the season while discussing their never-ending love triangle during part 1 of the LHHNY Reunion show.
While part 2 of the reunion show doesn’t air until tonight,  VH1 caught up with big booty Tahiry backstage just before she took her spot on the couch to get the real deal on her situation with Joe, how she really feels about getting slappy-happy with Kaylin,  and more.

Check out a few excerpts from the chat below:
via  VH1

How do you feel when you look back at the stuff and [Joe] makes it seem like you’re the one still trying to get on with him? 
“I have to remember that it’s an old episode. That’s why I acted all emotional the other day and actually instagramed the conversation where he was texting me because he sits around in interviews and he says stuff like, “My relationship is great and this and that and the third;” and behind the scenes it’s something different.

One day I just got fed up and was like alright since you wanna act like you guys are all chilling and skipping to the rainbow, this is what’s really happening. I’m tired of looking like im the crazy one, like I am the bully like I am the one running after him. At some point you’re like enough.
It’s been eight years of up and down, back and forth, are you ever tired of it?
“Of course! I’m human. I’m sure he has been sick of it too. We go back and forth through friendship, we question getting back together a few times. At some point that’s why we stay away if I can’t deal I’ll disappear, I don’t answer his texts, his phone calls, his anything and I’m sure he goes through his couple months then he comes back for another dose.  Even in friendship it’s just been really, really hard to figure out.”
It seems like you put him before yourself.
“I did, I have.”
Why?
“I can’t explain it. Love him to death, so I can’t explain what I have. Today though, I don’t.”
People on Twitter always want to find you a “good” man. Do you understand why people feel that way?“Absolutely! I mean they’re watching the show. He really drives my blood pressure. And they see me going through the motions. I can understand from a female’s perspective and from a man’s perspective.”

Do you regret mushing Kaylin?
“See what had happened was… I’m not proud of the way I act sometimes, but it’s a reaction. If you’re in my space I’m going to protect myself. All I saw was hair and somebody running after me out the corner of my eye.”
A lot of people felt bad for Kaylin.
“Y’all could eat that sh– if you want. All this damsel in distress bulls—. Because I have a big mouth and I’m loud all of a sudden I’m the aggressor? See I don’t like that sh–. She ain’t that innocent when she doing them threesomes with a d— in her mouth.”
So she was running up to you?
“No she was running, you can see the run. You did see me when I turned back and snuffed. But she was coming, so you’re coming I have my back towards you, I turn around and your right here, that’s what’s going to happen. I was wrong for reacting, but was I going to allow somebody to grab me from the back? No.”
Do you have an issue with her still?
“No I don’t have an issue with her, and I didn’t have an issue before then. I didn’t have an issue after it happened because she came out of pocket, and like I said, if you’re in my space I’m going to react. I’m human. Am I proud of me exuding violence or whatever it is on TV? Absolutely not. But chances are in real life you roll up on me like that and we just had a heated argument, I’m going to defend myself. I’m small. [laughs]“
Did you watch love and hip hop Atlanta?
“Absolutely! I watched some episodes, and I didn’t finish because I thought I was going to call Mona and tell her I’m not doing it. [laughter]“
You have any favorites on that cast?
“Of course!I like Joseline and I like Erica a lot. And I like Stevie. I like all of them, they’re hilarious.”
How do you think your season differs from ATL?
“We have real life situations. I’m not saying their situations aren’t real I’m just saying that we all worry about different things. I think we hold standards, like the way we view life is a little different. There’s certain things maybe I wouldn’t do which is why I feel like over here we have the drug addiction, we have the religious, the different relationships, you have Yandy trying to figure it out having a baby, we have situations that people actually can relate to. I can’t relate to walking in to therapy with my man and his chick. It’s just different, but I do enjoy them a lot. I can’t wait.”